Kukho imiqondiso eli-13 yomzali onetyhefu uninzi lwabantu olungayiqondiyo, kwaye aba bazali banokubenzakalisa abantwana babo ngeendlela ezininzi.
Ukuba nomntwana yinto entle, etshintsha ubomi. Ezi zezinye zezinto endinqwenela ukuba ndizazi ngaphambi kokuba ndibengumzali.
Oomama abafuna ukonwaba emsebenzini kunye nokuchitha ixesha nabantwana babo, nolu uluhlu lomsebenzi omangalisayo kwimisebenzi yasekhaya yomama.
Ngaba ucinga ukuba unenyanga enye ukhulelwe? Ukuba kunjalo, umzimba wakho uya kuqala ukubonisa iimpawu zokukhulelwa, ukusuka ekuboneni ukuya ekukhathaleni-jonga imiqondiso apha.
Ngaba ujonge iindlela ezimnandi zokuba abantwana bakho babe nobukrelekrele? Nazi iividiyo zabantwana beYouTube ezili-19 kunye nezitishi zabo zokubakhuthaza ngehlabathi elinomdla elinokwenzeka.
Yonke into ofuna ukuyifumana malunga nokuba kukhuselekile ukusebenzisa i-TUMS ngexesha lokukhulelwa.
Ngaba ungumzali omtsha uzabalaza ukuba ngumzali ongcono kwaye ungaqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni? Nazi iingcebiso ezili-13 ezisebenzayo kubazali abatsha.
Ke uneenyanga ezisi-8 ukhulelwe; uphantse wafika! Njengoko inyanga yakho yesibhozo iqhubeka, nazi iimpawu ezininzi ekufuneka uzilungiselele.
Kunye nosapho lwam, abantwana kunye nabahlobo babo, sajonga ngaphezulu kwe-100 TED Talks kwaye sakhetha ezona zilungileyo zeTed Talks ezili-17 zabantwana abathumela imiyalezo enamandla nekhuthazayo.
Abantwana bakamama ongumlwelwe badlula ebomini babo beziva bedidekile kwaye belahlekile, kwaye bekhangela uthando abangazange balufumane ekhaya.
Ukuba ngumama wasekhaya unemiceli mngeni, kodwa umsebenzi ngokwawo uyanelisa. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso malunga nokuba ngumama ophumeleleyo ekhaya.
Ngaba ufuna ukukhulisa unyana wakho ukuze abe yindoda elungileyo? Nazi iingcebiso ezili-18 ezisebenzayo zokukhulisa inkwenkwe ngokufanelekileyo ukuba wonke umzali kufuneka ayifunde.
Akukhe kushiywe lixesha ukuba usebenze kwizakhono zakho zokuba ngumzali. Funda eli nqaku ukuze wazi ukuba ungumzali okhuselayo (kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni ngayo).
Ukuba ngumama ongatshatanga kunzima. Endaweni yokuhlala kunye nokufumana nje, sebenzisa ezi ngcebiso ukukunceda uphumelele kwaye wenze ubomi obufunayo.
Ukuba ngumzali kuthatha umsebenzi. Ukufunda ukuba ngumzali ongcono kuya kunceda abantwana bakho baguquke babe ngabantu abadala abaza kuba nabantu abadala kwixesha elizayo.
Ukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba asebenzise ingqondo yakhe kwaye afunde ngehlabathi, jonga ezona ncwadi zilungileyo zabantwana abaneminyaka emi-6 ukuze baqalise kuhambo lwabo lokufunda.
Jonga ukuba zeziphi izimvo ezizodwa ababhali abadumileyo abanazo malunga nokuba ngumzali.
Ungaqiniseka njani ukuba uyabeleka? Nantsi eminye imiqondiso ebonisa ukuba ixesha likufuphi.
Kuyenzeka ukuba ube nomsebenzi owonwabisayo kunye nobomi bosapho kwaye ugcine impilo yakho-iingcebiso ezilungileyo zokusebenza komama ukulawula ngcono umsebenzi kunye nosapho.
Abasetyhini abaninzi bayazibuza ngendlela yokunciphisa umzimba ngelixa ukhulelwe. Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nento omawuyenze- kwaye ungayenzi- ukukhulelwa okukhuselekileyo nokunempilo.