Imikhwa emibi inokubonakala ingenabungozi, kodwa ineziphumo ezibi ekuhambeni kwexesha. Nazi iindlela ezili-13 ezimbi zokuyeka kwangoko.
Sifuna ukukhulisa imikhwa elungileyo kodwa kunokuba nzima ukulandela umkhondo. Fumana umkhondo wokulandela umkhwa okulingana kakhulu kolu luhlu lweenkqubo zokulandela umkhwa.
Ukuphuhlisa imikhwa esempilweni yeyona nto iphambili kwimveliso. Ngendlela ebalaseleyo yemihla ngemihla, uya kuziva unamandla kwaye uya konga ixesha.
Ukuba awulali kakuhle, awuyi kucinga kakuhle, usebenze kakuhle okanye uphile kakuhle. Funda le ndlela enamandla yasebusuku yokuphumla wekk kwaye uvuke ngobukrelekrele.
Ngaba uziva ungazihlanganisi kusasa? Nantsi indlela yokudala eyona ndlela yakho yakusasa ekwenza uvuke unamandla, uvelise kwaye wonwabe.
Isitshixo sokuqonda indlela yokuvuka kwangoko kukuqonda ukuba kuqhutywa kakhulu zizenzo zakho. Nazi izinto ezi-6 onokuzenza.
Ukuba uzibophelele kulonwabo kunye nempumelelo, nantsi imikhwa elishumi elungileyo yokuba kufuneka uphumelele. Sebenza kwimisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla!
Ngaba ufuna ukufunda indlela yokwakha imikhwa engcono? Jonga olu luhlu lweencwadi zokutshintsha ubomi kwaye uzilungiselele ukwenza utshintsho olukhulu ebomini bakho.
Ngaba ufuna ukuhlala unamandla yonke imini? Ukuba nesiko lasekuseni sisisombululo sakho. Funda ezi ndlela zilula zakusihlwa ezisi-7 zokuphucula imveliso yakho yosuku.
Yintoni eyahlula abantu abaphumelele kakhulu kwabo baphumeleleyo? Umsele 'uphumelele' kwaye ube 'yimpumelelo kakhulu' ngale nkqubo yakusasa yokuphumelela.
Ukufunda indlela yokwandisa amandla kubandakanya ukugxila kwizenzo ezithile, ezincinci onokuzenza suku ngalunye. Ixesha elingaphezulu, amandla oovimba bakho aya kukhula ngokwendalo.
Xa uzama ukutshintsha ubomi bakho, usenokuzibuza, 'Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ukwahlukana nalo mkhwa?' Fumanisa ukuba ithini inzululwazi ngalo mbandela.
Zahluka njani izithethe zemihla ngemihla kwiinkqubo zemihla ngemihla? Ungaziguqula njani iinkqubo zakho zibe zizithethe ezinentsingiselo? Fumanisa kweli nqaku.
Impumelelo emsebenzini ayenzeki ngengozi. Ifuna ubukrwada, ukusebenza nzima kunye nokuzinikezela. Le mikhwa emsebenzini inokukunceda uhambe ngendlela elungileyo.
Ungayitshintsha imikhwa ngokusebenzisa umbono, ukuvuma, ukuqonda, kunye nokukhetha malunga nemeko zakho.
Ukufunda ukwahlukana nomkhwa ombi kunokuba yinkqubo enzima, kodwa kukho amanyathelo onokuwathatha ukuze ulahle lo mkhwa ngexesha elifutshane.
Imikhwa ilawula impilo-ntle yakho kunye nempilo. Ukuba unemikhwa esempilweni, uya kuba sempilweni. Nantsi indlela yokwenza ukuba babe nomzimba nengqondo esempilweni.
Ukuba ufuna ukufunda ukuchaza indlela yesiqhelo kunye nokwenza into ekusebenzelayo, sineendlela ezili-9 zokukunceda uqalise kwaye uvelise ngakumbi ngeendlela zakho.
Ezi zinto zincinci zemihla ngemihla ziya kwenza umahluko okhawulezileyo ebomini bakho. Ulinde ntoni kanye kanye? Funda. Ngoku.
Abantu abaninzi abaphumeleleyo bavuka kwangoko. Ukuba ukufumanisa kunzima ukuvuka kwangoko, jonga ezi ngcebiso ziyi-5 zokukunceda uhlale unamandla kwaye uvelisa.