Nanini na xa uziva ulahlekile ebomini, jonga ezi ngcaphuno zothando ziyi-100 kwaye zinokuba zizibane ze-beacon zokukhokela indlela yakho kwaye zikuncede ukhuthazwe kwaye ubuthande ubomi bakho kwakhona.
Uzibuza ukuba 'kutheni ubomi bunzima kangaka?' Nazi izinto ezi-4 onokuzenza ukuze uyeke ukuzibuza malunga neengxaki zakho kwaye uqalise ukugxila kwizisombululo zakho.
Yintoni inqaku lobomi? Le mpendulo ivakala ngokungafane ifumaneke kwiinkcubeko zonke, kodwa zikhona iindlela zokwenza into yokuziphendulela.
Ngaba wakha wazibuza, 'Ndenza ntoni ngobomi bam?'. Nantsi inyathelo ngenyathelo lakho lokuphendula lo mbuzo ubalulekileyo.
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ungayifumana njani injongo ebomini? Yiza kuhambo lokufumana injongo ebomini kunye nokuphucula umgangatho wosuku ngalunye onalo.
Xa ubomi bunzima, sinokuzibuza, 'Kutheni ubomi busondela?' Impendulo inokuba nzima, kodwa eli nqaku liza kukunceda ukuba ulwe neemvakalelo ezingakhiyo.
Ukuba uthi kuwe 'ndibuthiyile ubomi bam,' lixesha lokuba ubuyekeze ubomi bakho. Kufuneka wenze ntoni xa ubuthiyile ubomi bakho? Ukuba ubambekile kwaye unalo mbuzo engqondweni yakho: landela la manyathelo alishumi aluncedo ekujonganeni nayo.
Kuthi ngamnye wethu, intsingiselo yobomi yahlukile. Kodwa sonke sifuna injongo yethu yobomi. Nazi iincwadi ezili-10 ezilungileyo malunga nobomi ukukunceda ufumane intsingiselo.
Ukudinwa kobomi ayisiyomvakalelo omele ukuyihoya. Nazi iingcebiso ezi-6 ezinokukunceda uphinde uphinde wonwabe kwaye ulawule ebomini bakho.
Ngaba ucinga kuwe 'ubomi bam bubi?' Ngamanye amaxesha siye sidlule kwinqanaba ebomini bethu apho yonke into ibonakala ngathi yingxaki. Eli nqaku likunika amanyathelo ama-3 ukulungisa kwaye ujike izinto.
Unganyaniseka njani kuwe kwaye uphile ubomi obufunayo buxhomekeke kubunyani bakho, ukukwazi ukungathandabuzi kuwe kunye nokususa imaski.
Ubomi yinkqubo engapheliyo yokuzifumanisa. Ukuba ulahlekile, kunokwenzeka ukuba ufunde indlela yokufumana kwakhona. Nantsi indlela.
Ukuba uhamba ngokutyibilika, ezi ngcaphuno zobomi ziya kukunceda ufumane ukuthanda ukuhlala ubomi bakho kwakhona!
Ukuba uthi kuwe, 'ubomi bam buphelile,' sebenzisa esi sixhobo sinamandla sokuqonda ukukunceda wakhe ukomelela, uzive ulungile, kwaye ufumane uxolo.
Cinga ngokuyila umbono wobomi bakho njengemephu yendlela eya kumaphupha akho obuqu nawobungcali. Ufunani? Kwaye uza kufika njani apho?
Imfihlelo yokufunda indlela yokunyanga isithukuthezi kunye nokuyisebenzisa njengesixhobo sokwenza izinto ezintle kukususa intsomi yokuba inamandla. Kuphela yinkolelo enomda.
Ngaba uziva ulahlekile ngequbuliso ngenxa yokuba awuqinisekanga ukuba wenzeni ngoku abantwana bakho befudukile? Nantsi indlela yokujamelana ne-Empty Nest Syndrome.
Bungantoni ubomi? Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba ubomi bungantoni na, qonda ubulula bezi ngcebiso zili-9 kwaye uzenzele umnqweno wokufunda.
Ungabuphila njani ubomi obunentsingiselo? Impendulo ihlala inzima, kodwa nazi iimbono ezili-10 zokuhlakulela ubomi obunentsingiselo.
Ukuba uziva ulahlekile, ukuba ubuza ukuba 'yintoni engalunganga ngam?', Okanye ukuba awazi ukuba wenzeni, nazi izinto ezi-3 zokukunceda uphinde ufumane ubomi.